Same Fight, Different Day
Break Cycles and Create Connection with Couples Coaching
Marriage Coaching
It shouldn’t be this hard
I feel trapped. I can’t keep living like this. I’ve lost hope and trust.
I feel more like we’re roommates than partners.
Sometimes I wonder if I’m even in love anymore.
I want to be wanted. I want to be desired…pursued…loved.
Every relationship goes through hard times. But this is different.
There is hope.
Develop Communication Skills and Resolve Fights
There are patterns in every relationship. We scream, yell, cry; we withdraw, hide, avoid. Each of part of the communication cycle shows deep longing for your partner, not the dysfunction of your relationship.
Hi, I’m Nathaniel Gustafson.
I help relationships just like your’s. Call me to find love and intimacy again by resolving communication issues and rebuilding trust.
You can actually resolve fights when you understand how your cycle reflects your deepest needs. You can respond to the love of your partner, rather than react out of your fears.
Heal after Affairs, Betrayal, and Pornography
Your world is upside down (and those are your good days), most days you are spinning and isolated. Having worked with hundreds of couples, I can confidently say there is hope. I have created a road map of recovery, relationship repair, and redemption. I utilize scientifically backed theories and research to give concrete guidance to save your relationship and actually heal from the trauma of betrayal.
Reignite Intimacy and Love
The most essential aspect of relational health is intimacy. Intimacy is the being fully known by another. We all want our person. We want to be connected, known, and accepted.
When you understand your emotions and where they are coming from, you are less likely to be reactive. As you are less reactive, you are more likely to share the more vulnerable parts of your self. As your are more vulnerable, you and your partner draw closer to one another. You can work through anything and come out stronger on the other side.
And better intimacy influences everything, not just fights. Some couples finally create the relationship they’ve always wanted. They put down the phone, turn off the TV, and genuinely want to spend connected time with one another. Their relationship now gives life and energy.
Better emotional intimacy yields deeper connection, more desire, less fights, and yes, better sex. You can experience love again!