Both have advantages and disadvantages. As a coach, I am more free to talk about my own story, bring in faith (if that's your desire), and be more direct in my interventions. As a counselor, I can utilize true therapy such as EMDR and EFT to deal with childhood issues, traumas, and relational dynamics. I cannot counsel across state lines, and I can coach across state lines.

I generally focus on what I call the 3Rs: Recovery, Relationship Repair, and Redemption. Recovery is primarily focused on the guy, helping him address the behavioral and character issues that got him to where he is at. Relationship repair equips him to come alongside his wife to help her heal. This phase focuses on things such as validation, empathy, and proactive communication to provide safety. Redemption is the ultimate goal. This process done well can and should be life changing. It has the potential to change how you show up to life.

My preference is to work with couples, as I want to see relational healing. If I only have one half of the couple, I am limited in what I can do. There is still a lot of work I can get done with individual fellas, and I always have an eye towards the relationship.

No. Insurance does not reimburse for coaching.

I recommend meeting weekly for 4-6 weeks in order to get to know one another, establish a common language/understanding, and gain some momentum. After that, we can talk about what works best for you. Some clients enjoy weekly, other desire every other. The hope is that we start weekly and wane with time. Though the healing process lasts numerous years, I generally work with clients for 9-18 months. My fee is $195 for a 50-minute session.

No. Most of my availability is 9 am - 5 pm (MT) on most weekdays.

Yes! There are all kinds of wonderful resources/books out there. Ideally, the betraying partner should learn how to engage emotions and establish solid friendships with safe guys. If you have not done a full disclosure, I HIGHLY recommend doing that prior to starting with me, and as quickly as possible after discovery.