TenderHearted Men

Helping Men Feel and Relationships Heal

TenderHearted Men started after years of working with clients and coming to the same conclusion:

Most men were not allowed to be their truest self.

Don’t cry, don’t need others, don’t show weakness.

This left us with profound wounds, needs, and insecurities. And there was no place to go for help.

Many of us fake it and fear the day when we are found out. Our masks often hide the things we don’t like about ourselves: addiction, resentment, and loneliness. And we cling to perfection, performance, and power—but we’re “fine.”

Tenderhearted Men is here to help you along your path of discovering and defining true masculinity.

You’ll notice there are no images of the perfect life on this site. No pictures of couples gazing into each other’s eyes. No mountain man hiking in the great outdoors. No dads idyllically throwing their laughing child high into the air.

If you want those things: go get them, there’s nothing wrong with them.

But we will never be satisfied when we aspire to someone else’s vision of what we should be.

TenderHearted Men is not here to help you live someone else’s dream of manhood. We are here for you. We are here to find and pursue your dream…for yourself. Get rid of the baggage, deal with the past, shed the burden of expectations, and trust yourself. It’s time to live into your truest self.

As men engage the help they need to find their truest self, they find purpose, contentment, joy, and freedom. Marriages increase in intimacy. Family relationships grow in depth and meaning. Men authentically like themselves.

TenderHearted Men commit to living into our truest self. We:

  • Journey toward a clearer, more honest and humble sense of who we are.

  • Deal with the past.

  • Reject the lies that stifle us.

  • Identify and pursue values.

  • Honor emotions

  • Engage relationships

  • Live a full life.

Join those brave enough to be TenderHearted Men.